Monday, June 23, 2008

A Day in the Life of a BYU Freshman

Today I got up when I heard Preston playing in his crib just like every other day of my life and started to sift through my t-shirts to find one to wear to the gym (yes, I did start going to the gym...) when I found this little beauty. Here's a closeup shot and the back.This t-shirt brings back a lot of memories of my Freshman year of college thanks to the Campus Home Evening event. In our church we dedicate every Monday night to an evening with family. We have a lesson, sing songs, play games, and of course have a treat. Since we aren't living with family when we're at school we are put into Family Home Evening or FHE groups (I never heard this term until I went to college) with people that live near us. These groups consist of guys and girls and one girl and one boy are appointed to be the "Mom" and "Dad." Our "parents" were in charge of organizing each Monday night. Of course they didn't have to organize anything for this one night when the entire campus had a "Home Evening" with the campus President Cecil O. Samuelson and his wife. According to the Campus newspaper It was "an approachable setting where students feel like their questions are important, and it offers students a unique chance to make their voice heard." This is where my story begins.

Friday, September 24, 2004
I could totally give up on everything: school, boys, friends... it would be soooo much easier, but no fun! Except for the school part. It's cool that I'm at school though, that's what makes life amazing! I love being spontaneous like the other day, Tuesday to be exact, when I asked the student body president on a date in front of the President of BYU and a lot of the student body, it made me famous and I got a dollar out of it because my friend Brandon bet me a dollar if I did it. I don't think he really thought I would do it, but I did. I decided you have to make life what you want it, and if you want to have fun you have to do it yourself, not just sit around and be shy and boring... that's what I was doing lastnight for the most part and it was no fun. Anyway, because of this France Nielson thing A.K.A. student body president, a ton of people have come up and talked to me asking how it went, it's tons of fun being popular I'll have to try it more often. I like it when I can totally be myself, ya even though being myself is kind of a weird thing. Just because I am a weirdo, but I'm okay with that. It just means I'm an individual right?


Tuesday, October 12, 2004
I figured I should write down this story because it's one of the most exciting of my life. Alright, now I'm going to tell you the story about what I did at the Campus Home Evening with President Samuelson. There was a question and answer session and he was telling us that we could ask any question we wanted and told us how last year some guy asked how to get a date with his daughter and he said he was hoping that nobody asked that question this year because she's married now. But my friend Brandon who is my old roommate and best friend Megan's boyfriend told me he'd give me a dollar if I went down and asked a question. So I went all the way down from the top of the Marriot Center to the bottom so I could try to get the attention of the microphone guy. It took me like 20 minutes to get his attention with the help of the guy sitting in front of me because he knew the microphone guy and he thought my question was hilarious. So I asked the President of BYU in front of a large number of the student body what his opinion was on Seniors dating freshman, then I preceded to ask him how I could get a date with France, the student body president who happened to be sitting on the stand with him. He just started laughing and then said, "Well come down here when this is over and we'll work that out between you two." I was scared to death, I only did it so I could get a dollar and I didn't know what I had gotten myself into. I went down there after because the guy in front of me who helped me get the attention of the microphone guy, and the microphone guy were both friends with France and introduced me to him. He invited me to go to his office sometime and visit whenever I want to, his friends were all like, yea, come eat lunch with us sometime, blah blah blah, it was so funny. One guy even gave me a campus home evening t-shirt which was the coolest thing ever by the way because it's light blue and says "not your average FHE" on the back, I love it. Then the Dean of Students came up to me an gave me his card and said, anytime you want to talk to France just come to my office, he's there all the time. I was like a celebrity on campus for like three days. Everyone was coming up to me saying hey aren't you that girl who asked France on a date... it was so funny, I was just like yea, my friend gave me a dollar to do it. That was like three weeks ago and I never went to go see France because that would have just been weird. I had just gotten over it. Then last Wednesday when I was waiting to eat lunch with one of my friends I saw him and was trying to ignore the fact that he was there because I figured that he didn't remember who I was, but he came up to me and was like, "hey, were have you been, I haven't seen you around. Why haven't you come to see me in my office?" Then he preceded to ask me what my name was again and how to spell it. Then he said he had a meeting he was late to, but he'd give me a call sometime. Isn't that the funniest thing ever, I think he was going to look me up on stalker-net, and he was standing there talking to me when he was late for his meeting. I just thought it was the weirdest thing ever, and Mara (she's now married to my brother) thought it was hilarious. But he never called me, he must be too busy with homecoming or something. Then yesterday when I was walking to physical science and was like ten minutes early for once in my life instead of getting to class right on time. Anyway, I was walking and I heard someone yell at me from across Brigham Square and was like "Who's yelling at me" I turned around and guess who it was? It was France. He went out of his way to yell my name from across the courtyard. I went to talk to him, he was eating lunch with his younger brother who's 22, France is 24, they're really old, but they're both really nice. I talked to him for a while and told him that I was doing some of the homecoming activities, like going to hike and light the Y tonight. He told me that he has to speak at it, but to bring all my friends and come up and talk to him because he would be mad if I didn't, isn't that weird? I thought so. So I went to physical science and my friend Emily came in and was like you'll never guess who I just saw? France, he was sitting at a table talking to someone and I overheard his conversation, he was like yea, that's the girl who asked me on a date. I just thought it was funny how she passed him right when he was talking about me. It's the funniest story of my life, I really like it. WOW, that's all I can say.


Friday, November 12, 2004


Brandon owes me five bucks!
I"m going on a date with France, Tonight!


(Of course the bet was more than just the date asking, I received five dollars if I actually went on a date, 25 if we got engaged, and so forth... kind of silly really)
So there you have it, I asked a much older student body president on a date, in front of a lot of people, shy little me, right? And all for a dollar, or I guess potentially more. ;) He really was a very nice guy, but I have to say not quite my type. Every freshman girl thought he was sooo dreamy... except for me, and I was the one that ended up going on a date with him.
My roommate Dom who I wrote about in a previous post was in our dorm room when he called to ask me on a date (he looked me up in the online student directory we always called it stalkernet), and I was in of course in class. She gave him my cell phone number and he called me as I was rushing to do my homework before my psychology class. By the time I got home every girl in my dorm (literally) knew that I was going on a date with France, even the girls I didn't know, and they were all giving me tips on what I sure wear, and how I should do my hair. The worst thing was that he had to come pick me up at the dorms, so I was waiting in the main lobby surrounded by all the girls who wanted a peek, it was very embarrassing!
I'm guessing by this point some of you are wondering what France looks like. I wasn't good enough friends with him to ever have my picture taken with him and I wasn't just a passing admirer who could ask for a picture and not have to worry about it being awkward because they would never see him again. Hence, the reason I don't have any pictures of him... besides this one I found on the BYU website. I think this was right after he won the election which makes sense as to why he's got the #1 finger thing going on. He was very polite on our date to the dollar movie theatre, but the movie was pretty much all we talked about. The entire night was slightly awkward because we were doubling with his friend and his friends girlfriend and they obviously had been dating for a while. Plus, who goes on a first date to just a movie and nothing else? That could be one reason why he was single despite his supposed striking good looks.
All in all, it was an interesting experience, but I'm glad I found what I was looking for (Gabe, the best husband ever!), and I hope he did too. Maybe someone who really loved the dollar theatre and didn't eat much... because he definately was not my type. Plus, I ended up with a really cool shirt!

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Communing With Nature

Gabe's parents live in a beautiful area near Cincinnati. While we were there we went on a walk just down the street and saw this beautiful sight.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

To the Dad's in My Life

*Better late than never*
Thanks to all the Father's in my life for all you have done for our family! Gabe you're the best daddy a wife and baby could ask for! Dad thank you for all you have taught me throughout my life, and for the good example you are to my son. Larry, thanks for the great example you have been to Gabe throughout his life, and for continuing to do so now as he is learning to be a father.
I'm grateful that Preston is related to so many amazing righteous men! Thanks again for all you have done for us!
Now for just one more thing. This is dedicated to my dear husband, and all those hardworking fathers out there. :)
The Cost of Children
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 years old and came up with $160,140 for a middle income family. That doesn't even include college tuition! It doesn't sound too bad if you break it down. It ends up being $8,896 a year, $741.38 a month, or $171.08 a week. That's a mere $24.24 a day! Just over a dollar an hour.
Here is what you get for your $160,140:
- Naming right; First, middle, and last!
- Glimples of God everyday.
- Giggles under the covers every night.
- More love than your heart can hold.
- Butterfly kisses.
- Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds and warm cookies.
- A hand to hold, usually covered with jam.
- A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sand castles and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain.
- Someone to laugh yourself silly with no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.
For $160,140 you never have to grow up.
- You get to fingerpaint, carve pumpkins, play hide-and-seek, catch lightning bugs, and never stop believing in Santa Claus.
- You have an excuse to keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh, watch Saturday morning cartoons, go to Disneyland, and wish on stars.
- You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refridgerator magnets.
- You get to collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, and handprints set in clay or cards with backward letters for Father's Day.
For $160,140 there is no greater bang for your buck.
- You get to be the hero just for retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, taking the training wheels off of a bike, removing a splinter, filling a wading pool, coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
- You get to a front row seat to history by witnessing the first step, first word, first date, and first time behind the wheel.
- You get to be immortal.
- You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs on your limbs called grandchildren.
- You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communication and human sexuality that no college can match.
- You have the power to heal a booboo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, and even love you without counting the cost.
ENJOY YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN!!!
And, remember, they're cheaper by they dozen.
Author Unknown

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Busy Boy

Preston has grown so much in the past few weeks. He's turning into a little man. Watch this video and see why! A friend of mine said he slightly resembles Jack Sparrow from Pirates of the Caribbean, you'll have to be the judge.



Friday, June 13, 2008

Edible Art

Gabe's youngest sister Arien is an amazing artist! She just graduated from High School and is going to BYU in the fall to study Graphic Design. Here is one of my favorite pictures she drew. Look at that detail! I wish this picture did it justice. For Arien's senior project she decided to learn a new type of art. She made these beautiful gum paste flowers... to practice before she made the flowers to decorate her "wedding" cake. Look at her in action! Next she had to actually had to bake the cakes and level them off to make a nice smooth surface for decorating. Next put two cakes together and then piped the frosting around the edges and used a hot steamed spreader to smooth it out. The next part, which I think was the hardest physically, was rolling out the fondant, lifting it onto the cake, and smoothing it out. Next she put straws in as a support. Next a dowel went right in the middle, this particular one is actually an old chopstick. (ignore Gabe in the background, he wasn't actually helping) after the first and second layers were finished it was time to lift one on top of the other, and make sure it stayed straight. I'm glad I was able to help in some way! Finally all three layers were assembled, let me tell you that thing was HEAVY! Finally for the decorating and artistic part. Arien put the ribbons on, and began piping around the edges. Then she added her other works of art. Gorgeous already, but still not done. She put the finishing touches on. Even the back was breathtaking.I think anyone would feel lucky to have this as a wedding cake, all that hard work was worth it!

Monday, June 9, 2008

Take Me Out To The Ball Game

This is Gabe's third summer playing in the Boeing Softball League playing for "Tater Salad." The first season we were newlyweds, the second season I was pregnant with Preston, (trust me those benches aren't comfortable) and now the little guy is able to enjoy the games as well (when the weather is good) despite the fact that they go past his bedtime.
After we pass the port-a-potty we get to the field... where I try to get Preston to sit on the bench with me to cheer daddy on... to make sure he hits the ball far. Once he's hit the ball and run fast around the bases daddy comes to get Preston... and lets him play with his hat... which is his absolute favorite part about the ball game...

besides the rocks he hoards ...


when Daddy's in the outfield.

He LOVES the softball games!

Sunday, June 8, 2008

Cincinnati in Review: Part 1

We had a great time hanging around the house, and taking advantage of the beautiful sunny weather while we were in Cincinnati for our yearly visit with Gabe's parents.
Preston was able to hang out in the beautiful backyard,play with blocks and other toys inside the house with the help of Daddy, Grandpa, Great-Grandpa, and Aunt Arien. examine and eat rocks, on top of that he had time to relax in the pool, he was in heaven!

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Weather

I've been taking a religion course online called "Teachings of the Living Prophets." The assignment I'm working on right now consists of writing a biography for each member of the Quorum of the Twelve and the First Presidency. It's interesting for me to learn about each of these men and realize that I have something in common with all of them. I'm really enjoying that I can connect myself personally with each of them. When I was reading through information about Elder Packer of the Quorum of the Twelve I found this quote and realized that this was exactly what I needed to hear today.
He said: "I had built a barn at our home in Lindon, Utah. I wanted to paint it, but because I traveled a lot for the seminaries I was seldom home on a Saturday. When the first free Saturday did come so I could paint, it rained. I declared my independence from the weather that day and painted the barn in the rain. I decided that I was not going to let the weather dictate what I was going to do that day or any day. I took the philosophy, let it rain, I got here first. I used to tell the missionaries in the New England States Mission that if they had nothing more than the weather to which to attach their dispositions, they were a yo-yo, going up and down all the time. I have been a lot happier since I declared my independence from the weather."
Isn't that amazing? That's exactly what I need to do, but then I looked at weather.com today. It's hard to keep a positive attitude with a ten-day forecast like this... in June! They don't have this problem in Utah very often... or at least me thinking that makes me feel better.
Forecast for Lake Stevens, WA




10-Day Forecast Day Forecast




High /Low (°F) Precip. %



Today Jun 03 Rain 55°/48° 90 %


Wed Jun 04 Showers 58°/46° 40 %


Thu Jun 05 Few Showers 59°/49° 30 %

Fri Jun 06 Showers 55°/49° 40 %


Sat Jun 07 Showers 56°/49° 50 %


Sun Jun 08 Mostly Cloudy 56°/48° 20 %


Mon Jun 09 Few Showers 60°/50° 30 %


Tue Jun 10 Few Showers 61°/49° 30 %


Wed Jun 11 Showers 59°/48° 30 %


Thu Jun 12 Showers 62°/51° 60 %



What's with all of the different words for rain anyway? They say rain, showers, and few showers on some days trying to get our hopes up that it might be nice for at least a little while. Of course they throw in one day that's supposedly going to be mostly cloudy but it still has a 20% chance of precipitation so it's quite possible we'll have rain that day too. Really I don't mind the rain most of the time but this is getting ridiculous. I just want to be able to go out and enjoy the sunshine. The saddest thing to me is when Preston goes over to the door or the window and cries because he wants to go play in the grass. Too bad it's freezing cold and not to mention SOAKING WET outside! My poor baby, deprived from a decent summer his first year of life. :(



At least one good thing is coming out of this my Cala Lily suddenly came back to life and sprouted (is that the word?) a new flower! See I'm being positive. :)I thought for sure it was a goner, wouldn't you if you saw this?
So I guess what Elder Packer is trying to tell us is that the good and the bad can live in harmony, if we choose to do so, just like my Cala Lily.
I guess I just need to try harder to be as simple as a plant.

A Night Out With The Girls

Some good friends of mine I've known since I've been married decided to have a girls night in honor of Amy's soon to be born baby boy instead of having a baby shower. It was so much fun! We all left our husbands at home to feed the kids dinner and put them to bed and we all carpooled to Macaroni Grill. I don't remember the last time I went out to eat with friends and no kids, and I'm glad we did. :)
Their bread is amazing! We kept asking the waiter to bring more... I'm glad they don't have limits on that kind of thing.

The food was all beautiful and very yummy!

Here I am with the proud mama...


and here are all the girls together, Kati, Amy, Alycia, and Melissa. The weather was absolutely beautiful so we were excited to be able to sit outside while we ate.

When we first got to the restaurant I embarrassed everyone by trying to take of picture of one of the employees without him noticing.

Obviously I didn't do a very good job because he eventually started smiling for the camera. Why did I want a picture of a random bus boy at Macaroni Grill in the first place do you ask? Because he's famous of course.

Didn't you watch American Idol season 6? He did try out you know, and even made a good friend who tried out as well.

Kenneth Briggs didn't make it into the top 12, or even to Hollywood week for that matter, but he was compared to a bush baby by Simon Cowell. Do you see the similarity?

Although he didn't become the next American Idol, Kenneth did get to go on a lot of talk shows thanks to Simon's comment along with his good friend Jonathan Jayne. They even got to make a stop at the Idol Finale where they won an award and had it presented to them by none other than Ryan Seacrest himself.


Now do you see why I wanted my picture taken with this guy? Luckily (or unluckily for Kati) we passed right by him on the way to the restroom after we finished our meal. All of my friends tried to run away but I called Kati back and she unwillingly took this picture for me. Thanks a lot Kati, you're the best!
Now, I don't know if my face is red because it got sunburned that day, or because I was embarrassed that he put his arm around me when my husband wasn't around. :) I just figured it would be good to ask him for a picture because he was going outside and passing our table about every five minutes while we were there hoping to draw out his fifteen minutes of fame. When I finally asked him he responded promptly (almost before I could finish my question) "OF COURSE!" I guess I would be that enthusiastic too if some random person wanted to get their picture taken with me... maybe.
Overall, it was an fun night, thanks again girls, I hope I didn't embarrass you too much!